An insecure attachment style characterized by discomfort with closeness, excessive self-reliance, and emotional distance in relationships. These individuals often have a positive view of themselves but negative view of others.
Described by Mary Ainsworth in the 1970s, from 'avoidant' derived from Old French 'esvuidier' (to empty out, withdraw) combined with 'attachment.' The term captures the tendency to avoid emotional intimacy as a protective strategy learned from consistently unresponsive caregiving.
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