Bedfellow

/ˈbɛdˌfɛloʊ/ noun

Definition

Someone who shares a bed with another person, or more figuratively, an unlikely ally or partner.

Etymology

From 'bed' + 'fellow' (a companion or person). Used since the 1300s, it originally meant someone literally sharing a bed, but gained a metaphorical meaning in Shakespeare's time for strange partnerships.

Kelly Says

The phrase 'strange bedfellows' is super common in politics and history—it means unlikely partners working together! Politics makes for strange bedfellows is a famous saying about unlikely alliances.

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Gender History

Historically carried gendered moral judgment about intimate relationships and cohabitation, with different standards applied to men versus women sharing beds.

Inclusive Usage

Use neutrally to mean any person sharing space/situation without implying moral judgment based on gender or relationship status.

Inclusive Alternatives

["bedmate","roommate","associate","ally"]

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