Care

/kɛr/ verb

Definition

To feel concern, interest, or affection about someone or something, and to want to help, protect, or look after them.

Etymology

From Old English 'caru' or 'cearu', meaning 'sorrow', 'anxiety', or 'serious attention'. Over time, the emotional pain sense softened into concern and loving attention.

Kelly Says

Originally, 'care' was closer to 'worry' or 'sorrow', which shows how deeply we hurt over what we love. To care for someone is to accept that their pain and safety will always matter to you.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

The language of 'care' has often been feminized, with caregiving roles socially and economically assigned to women and girls. This has contributed to the devaluation and invisibilization of care work, both paid and unpaid.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'care' to describe responsibilities and professions across all genders, and avoid implying that caring is naturally or exclusively a feminine trait. When possible, explicitly recognize care work as skilled and valuable labor.

Inclusive Alternatives

["support","attend to","look after"]

Empowerment Note

Women, especially women of color, have historically carried the bulk of care work in families, communities, and health systems, often without recognition or fair compensation. Naming and valuing their contributions helps correct this systemic erasure.

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