Custom

/ˈkʌstəm/ noun

Definition

A usual way of behaving or doing something in a particular society, place, or group; a tradition or habit.

Etymology

From Old French 'custume' or 'coutume', from Latin 'consuetudo' meaning 'habit or usage'. The idea moved from personal habits to shared social practices.

Kelly Says

A custom is a habit that a whole group of people shares. When enough people repeat a behavior over time, it stops being just a choice and starts feeling like 'what we do'.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

'Customs' in many societies have encoded gender roles, defining appropriate work, dress, and behavior differently for men and women. Language about 'traditional customs' can sometimes obscure how these norms limited women’s autonomy and opportunities.

Inclusive Usage

When referring to customs, be explicit about which practices are gendered and avoid romanticizing traditions that restrict people’s rights based on gender.

Inclusive Alternatives

["practice","convention","norm"]

Empowerment Note

In describing customs that have changed, highlight the role of women and gender minorities in challenging restrictive norms and shaping new practices.

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