Demanding

/dɪˈmændɪŋ/ adjective

Definition

requiring much skill, effort, or attention

Etymology

from Latin 'demandare' meaning to entrust or command

Kelly Says

Demanding things demand your full attention - like a tough teacher or crying baby!

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Women asserting needs or standards are disproportionately labeled 'demanding' or 'difficult,' while men exhibiting identical behavior are seen as 'decisive' or 'principled.' This reflects gendered double standards in evaluation.

Inclusive Usage

Apply descriptors consistently regardless of gender. Note the context: is someone setting legitimate boundaries or making unreasonable requests? Avoid 'demanding' as a gendered slur.

Inclusive Alternatives

["assertive","clear about needs","high standards"]

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