Domineering

/ˌdɑːmɪˈnɪrɪŋ/ adjective

Definition

Acting in a way that shows you want to control other people and won't listen to their opinions or ideas.

Etymology

From the verb 'dominate,' which comes from Latin 'dominari' meaning 'to rule or govern.' The suffix '-ing' creates the present participle form, which became used as an adjective to describe someone's commanding behavior.

Kelly Says

Domineering people often don't realize they're doing it—their brain is wired to see situations through a 'command-and-control' lens, which actually traces back to evolutionary survival instincts where one person had to make quick decisions for group safety.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Pejorative when applied to women asserting authority; men exhibiting same behavior labeled 'decisive' or 'commanding.' Reflects double-standard for gendered leadership.

Inclusive Usage

Use consistently across genders or replace with neutral descriptor: 'authoritarian,' 'controlling,' 'assertive'—chosen by context, not gender.

Inclusive Alternatives

["authoritarian","controlling","commanding","assertive"]

Empowerment Note

Women in leadership face gendered language penalties; recognize that women's authority is leadership, not domination.

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