Door-in-the-face

/dɔr ɪn ðə feɪs/ noun

Definition

A compliance technique where an unreasonably large request is made first and rejected, followed by a smaller, more reasonable request that seems moderate by comparison. The contrast makes the second request appear more acceptable, increasing compliance rates.

Etymology

Named by Robert Cialdini in the 1970s to contrast with the foot-in-the-door technique, using the metaphor of a door being slammed in someone's face after an outrageous request. The technique exploits the principle of reciprocal concessions.

Kelly Says

This technique works like a magic trick for your brain - when someone 'backs down' from a huge request to a smaller one, it feels like they're doing YOU a favor! Your mind interprets their retreat as a concession that deserves reciprocation.

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