Ecstasy

/ˈɛkstəsi/ noun

Definition

A feeling of very great happiness or pleasure, so strong that it almost seems to carry you away.

Etymology

From Greek 'ekstasis' meaning 'standing outside oneself', from 'ek' (out) and 'stasis' (standing). It originally described a state where people felt taken out of their normal mind or body.

Kelly Says

The word suggests that intense joy literally pulls you outside your normal self. It’s used for both spiritual experiences and strong physical pleasure, hinting that both can feel like leaving ordinary reality.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

The term 'ecstasy' in sexual contexts has often been used in ways that eroticize women while downplaying their agency and consent. In drug and rave cultures, portrayals of 'ecstatic' women have sometimes reinforced gendered stereotypes and vulnerabilities.

Inclusive Usage

Use carefully in sexual or emotional contexts, emphasizing mutual consent and agency rather than objectifying one party.

Inclusive Alternatives

["intense joy","rapture","MDMA (for the drug, more precise)"]

Empowerment Note

When discussing sexual pleasure, include women’s and queer people’s perspectives and research on autonomy, consent, and health, rather than defaulting to male-centered narratives.

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