Frigid

/ˈfrɪdʒ.ɪd/ adjective

Definition

Frigid describes something that is extremely cold in temperature. It can also describe a person or manner that seems very unfriendly or unemotional.

Etymology

From Latin “frigidus” meaning “cold, chill,” from “frigere” (to be cold). It entered English through French and Latin scientific language.

Kelly Says

Frigid isn’t just ‘cold’; it’s the kind of cold that makes your body tense up and your breath visible. When we call someone’s attitude frigid, we’re borrowing that physical reaction—you feel emotionally frozen around them.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

“Frigid” has been used pejoratively, especially toward women, to label them as sexually unresponsive or cold, pathologizing women who did not conform to expected sexual availability. This framing tied women’s value to sexual receptivity.

Inclusive Usage

Avoid using “frigid” to describe people’s sexual behavior or personality; reserve it for literal temperature or clearly metaphorical, non-gendered contexts.

Inclusive Alternatives

["very cold","icy (literal or clearly metaphorical)"]

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