Gossipee

/ɡɑːsɪˈpiː/ noun

Definition

A person who is the subject of gossip; someone whose private affairs are being discussed by gossips.

Etymology

From gossip + the suffix -ee (indicating the recipient or target of an action, like employee, trainee), creating a word for the person being gossiped about rather than doing the gossiping.

Kelly Says

While 'gossiper' (the one who spreads rumors) is common, 'gossipee' (the one being talked about) is much rarer—yet it's arguably the more interesting role, since being a 'gossipee' against your will tells a darker story about social cruelty than the gossipers probably intend.

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Gender History

This term designates the target of gossip, typically feminized in historical usage (the 'gossiped-about woman'). It reinforces a gendered power dynamic where women are subjects of others' commentary.

Inclusive Usage

Prefer 'subject of discussion' or use subject's name. 'Gossipee' reduces a person to passive object of talk.

Inclusive Alternatives

["subject of discussion","person discussed"]

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