Indiscreet

/ˌɪndɪˈskriːt/ adjective

Definition

Not careful about keeping secrets or respecting privacy; saying things that are tactless or inappropriate in social situations.

Etymology

From Latin indiscretus (not separated), combining in- (not) + discretus (separated, distinct). It originally meant 'not distinguishing between things,' then evolved to mean not making proper distinctions about what should be said or hidden.

Kelly Says

An indiscreet person can't seem to 'separate' private information from public conversation — they blur the line between what should stay hidden and what can be shared. This is why gossips are classically indiscreet; they don't distinguish between secrets and stories.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Historically applied more scrutinously to women's behavior and speech; 'discreet' carried gendered expectations around female modesty and silence.

Inclusive Usage

Apply equally to all genders when describing tactlessness. Be conscious that silencing is often gendered.

Inclusive Alternatives

["tactless","careless with information"]

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