Indiscretion

/ˌɪndɪˈskɹɛʃən/ noun

Definition

A lack of careful judgment or an unwise action that reveals secrets or causes embarrassment.

Etymology

From Old French 'indiscretion' combining 'in-' (not) and 'discretion' (careful judgment). Latin 'discretio' meant the ability to distinguish or decide wisely.

Kelly Says

Indiscretion is basically the opposite of being discreet—it comes from a root meaning 'not being able to distinguish' what should stay private! One indiscretion can follow you forever.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Historically, indiscretion has disproportionately been applied to women's behavior—particularly sexual or social conduct—with gendered moral judgment. Men's similar behavior often escaped the term entirely.

Inclusive Usage

Use specific, gender-neutral language: 'breach of confidence,' 'mistake,' or 'misjudgment' rather than the morally loaded 'indiscretion,' which carries gendered double standards.

Inclusive Alternatives

["breach of confidence","mistake","misjudgment","lapse in judgment"]

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