Internal working model

/ɪnˈtɜrnəl ˈwɜrkɪŋ ˈmɒdəl/ noun

Definition

Mental representations of self and others in relationships, formed through early attachment experiences and used to guide expectations and behaviors in future relationships. These cognitive-emotional templates operate largely outside conscious awareness.

Etymology

Coined by John Bowlby in the 1970s, combining 'internal' from Latin 'internus' (within), 'working' (actively functioning), and 'model' from Latin 'modulus' (measure, pattern). Bowlby borrowed the concept from cognitive psychology to explain how early relationship experiences create lasting mental blueprints.

Kelly Says

Your internal working model is like having a relationship GPS that was programmed in infancy - it automatically navigates you toward familiar relationship patterns, even if they lead to dead ends! The tricky part is that these models feel like 'truth' rather than learned patterns that can be updated.

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