Lapdog

/ˈlæpdɔg/ noun

Definition

A small dog bred to sit on someone's lap for companionship, or a person who follows someone blindly without thinking for themselves.

Etymology

From 'lap' (the space between waist and knees when sitting) combined with 'dog.' Dates to the 1600s-1700s for the literal meaning, and evolved by the 1800s to mean a person who shows obsequious loyalty.

Kelly Says

Calling someone a 'lapdog' is brutal because it compares them to a pet—completely dependent and unable to think independently, which is why political opponents use this insult to suggest someone lacks backbone or original ideas.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Derives from gendered insult traditions: 'lapdog' conflates servility with femininity and weakness; used to emasculate men deemed overly compliant or dependent.

Inclusive Usage

Avoid. Use specific critiques of behavior: 'overly deferential,' 'uncritically loyal,' 'lacking autonomy' without gendered insult framing.

Inclusive Alternatives

["uncritically loyal","overly deferential","lacking independent judgment"]

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