Propose

/prəˈpoʊz/ verb

Definition

To propose is to suggest a plan or idea for others to consider, or to ask someone to marry you.

Etymology

From Latin *proponere* 'to put forward', from *pro-* 'forward' and *ponere* 'to put'. It centered on putting an idea out where others can see it.

Kelly Says

When you propose, you’re literally 'putting forward' a piece of your mind or heart. That’s why proposing marriage feels so intense—you’re not just offering a plan, you’re offering a future.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

To "propose" in professional and academic contexts has long been open to all, but women’s proposals were often discounted or attributed to male colleagues. In romantic contexts, cultural norms historically cast men as the ones who propose, reinforcing gendered expectations about initiative.

Inclusive Usage

Use "propose" without assuming which gender takes initiative; in examples, vary who proposes ideas, projects, or marriage.

Inclusive Alternatives

["suggest","put forward","recommend"]

Empowerment Note

When recounting the history of ideas, highlight how women proposed key theories, methods, and reforms that were later adopted or popularized by men, often without proper credit.

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