Sissies

/ˈsɪs.iz/ noun

Definition

Plural of sissy; either informal words for one's sister, or derogatory terms for boys considered weak or overly feminine.

Etymology

From 'sis,' a childish or informal word for sister, with the diminutive suffix '-ie' and plural '-s.' 'Sis' comes from the word 'sister,' shortened affectionately. The derogatory meaning developed later.

Kelly Says

The word 'sissy' teaches us how words get weaponized. It started innocent—just 'sis' with a cutesy suffix—but became an insult specifically by using 'sister-ness' against boys. Historians call this the 'feminization as insult' pattern, where calling someone feminine was meant to demean them.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Derived from 'sister,' sissies became a derogatory term feminizing boys and men, encoding the assumption that feminine traits = weakness or shame. This slur weaponizes gender nonconformity and conflates femininity with inferiority.

Inclusive Usage

Avoid as a slur. If discussing the term analytically, flag its derogatory history. Use gender-neutral descriptors of actual behavior.

Inclusive Alternatives

["gender nonconforming person","person expressing femininity","effeminate person (reclaimed in some LGBTQ+ contexts)"]

Empowerment Note

This slur reinforces the devaluation of femininity itself. Rejecting it means affirming that femininity and softness are strengths, not shame.

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