To make or become softer, gentler, or less harsh; to reduce in intensity or harshness.
From Old English 'softe,' related to Old Saxon 'softa,' of uncertain origin. The verb form developed in Middle English, and adding '-en' creates verbs from adjectives (like 'hard' to 'harden').
The verb 'soften' works on everything—butter, voices, blows, hearts—because English borrowed this wonderful word that applies equally to physical and emotional things. It's one of those words that captures a whole philosophy of gentle change.
Associated with feminine weakness or compliance; contrasts with 'hardening' (masculine strength). Gendered expectations enforce softness as feminine virtue, limiting agency.
Use descriptively for any material or posture; avoid prescriptive 'women should soften' framings.
["yields","moderates","adapts","becomes malleable"]
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