Wingman

/ˈwɪŋmæn/ noun

Definition

A loyal friend who supports you in romantic situations, or in aviation, a pilot flying beside the leader of a formation.

Etymology

Combines 'wing' from Old English and 'man'; originally a military aviation term from the early 1900s where planes flew in formation. Later adopted in social contexts to mean a supportive friend.

Kelly Says

The term became mainstream from military fighter pilots whose lives literally depended on their wingman's support—it's why it perfectly describes any friend who 'has your back' in social situations!

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Gender History

Originated in military aviation culture (male-dominated); extended to social contexts assuming male bonding dynamics. Reinforces masculine-coded support role.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'wingperson' or 'supporter' to neutralize gender coding while retaining the collaboration sense.

Inclusive Alternatives

["wingperson","supporter","partner"]

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