Attitude is the way you think and feel about something, which often influences how you behave; it can also mean a confident or challenging manner.
It comes from Italian *attitudine* and French *attitude*, originally meaning 'posture' or 'position of the body'. The sense of mental or emotional 'posture' developed later.
Your physical posture and your mental attitude are more connected than the language change suggests: standing tall can literally shift how confident you feel. We still say someone 'has an attitude' as if they’re holding their mind in a visible pose.
The term 'attitude' has often been used in gendered ways, with women and girls disproportionately labeled as having a 'bad attitude' or being 'attitudinal' for behaviors accepted or praised in men (e.g., assertiveness). This has contributed to stereotypes that police women’s tone and emotional expression.
Use 'attitude' with specific, observable descriptions (e.g., 'interrupting others') and avoid gendered double standards in evaluating similar behaviors across genders.
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When discussing 'attitude' in leadership or activism, recognize how women’s assertiveness and resistance have been pathologized, and instead describe their strategies and perspectives with neutral or positive language where warranted.
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