Besotted

/bɪˈsɑːtɪd/ adjective

Definition

Completely infatuated and foolishly in love, often to the point of poor judgment or obsession. This suggests being so overwhelmed by romantic feelings that rational thinking is impaired.

Etymology

From 'besot,' meaning 'to make foolish' or 'to infatuate,' related to 'sot' (a drunkard). The word suggests being intoxicated by love in a way that impairs judgment, similar to being drunk.

Kelly Says

Besotted individuals show brain patterns remarkably similar to those with obsessive-compulsive disorder—increased activity in areas associated with intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors. This explains why people in this state often can't stop thinking about their beloved and may engage in repetitive behaviors like constantly checking their phone.

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Gender History

Historically applied disproportionately to women (besotted maiden, besotted bride) as emotional/irrational; men described as 'devoted' or 'passionate' for same behavior.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'devoted', 'passionate', or 'enchanted' regardless of subject gender to avoid gendered emotional hierarchies.

Inclusive Alternatives

["devoted","passionate","enchanted","captivated"]

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