Infatuated

/ɪnˈfætʃueɪtɪd/ adjective

Definition

Completely absorbed by a sudden strong attraction or love for someone, often without thinking clearly about it.

Etymology

From Latin 'infatuatus,' meaning foolish or stupid, combined with 'in-' (to make) and 'fatuus' (foolish). The Romans literally called this state 'being made foolish' by attraction.

Kelly Says

The Romans had it right—they called infatuation a form of foolishness because when you're infatuated, you genuinely stop thinking clearly; neuroscience now shows that intense attraction actually reduces activity in the judgment-related parts of your brain!

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Gender History

Infatuation has been feminized in literature and media as a diminished, irrational female emotional state (obsessive, foolish) while male infatuation is often reframed as romantic passion or admirable devotion.

Inclusive Usage

Use neutrally to describe temporary intense attraction or fascination in any person; avoid gendered diminishment of the experience.

Inclusive Alternatives

["captivated","intensely attracted","absorbed"]

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