Cajoling

/kəˈdʒoʊlɪŋ/ verb

Definition

Persuading someone to do something through flattery, charm, or gentle pressure rather than force.

Etymology

From French 'cajoler' (to coax), possibly from 'cage' (prisoner's cell), suggesting the idea of confining or manipulating someone. The term entered English in the 17th century and has maintained its meaning of using clever persuasion.

Kelly Says

The word 'cajole' might come from putting someone in a 'cage' of false promises—it's about verbal trickery that sounds nicer than outright lying or demanding.

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