Cocky

/ˈkɑːki/ adjective

Definition

Acting overly confident about yourself in an annoying way, like you think you're better than everyone else.

Etymology

From the noun 'cock' (rooster) dating to the 1600s, referring to the bird's proud, strutting behavior. The '-y' suffix turns it into an adjective meaning resembling or having the qualities of a rooster.

Kelly Says

Roosters are literally the source of cockiness—they strut around, crow at dawn, and act like they own the place, and English speakers found that behavior so recognizable they made it a personality trait.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Confidence in men is historically praised as leadership; same trait in women labeled 'cocky' or 'arrogant.' The gendered double standard reflects power dynamics favoring male assertiveness.

Inclusive Usage

Reserve for actual overconfidence regardless of gender. Acknowledge confidence in women as equally valid.

Inclusive Alternatives

["overconfident","self-assured","assertive"]

Empowerment Note

Women's professional confidence has been systematically pathologized; reclaim assertiveness as strength.

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