Femininity

/ˌfɛm.ɪˈnɪn.ə.ti/ noun

Definition

The qualities or characteristics traditionally associated with being a woman, such as gentleness, grace, or nurturing behavior.

Etymology

From Latin 'femininus' meaning 'of women,' derived from 'femina' meaning 'woman.' The suffix '-ity' makes it an abstract noun. The concept has evolved significantly—what cultures consider 'feminine' varies wildly across history and geography.

Kelly Says

Here's what's wild: femininity isn't fixed! Medieval noble women were considered more feminine when they were pale (showing they didn't work outdoors), while ancient Greek women demonstrated femininity through housekeeping. Today it's completely different, which proves 'femininity' is invented by each culture, not biological.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

19th–20th century prescriptive norms conflated femininity with passivity, docility, and ornamental value. Modern usage spans descriptive (gender expression) to prescriptive (limiting expectations), requiring context awareness.

Inclusive Usage

Use descriptively when discussing gender identity or expression. Avoid prescriptive framing that limits or expects femininity universally.

Inclusive Alternatives

["female identity","gender expression","feminine expression"]

Empowerment Note

Women's intellectual, athletic, and leadership capabilities were historically dismissed as 'unfeminine.' Reject definitions of femininity that erase women's full humanity.

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