To behave playfully or affectionately toward someone in a light, teasing way, often to show romantic interest without being serious.
Origin unknown, but first appeared in English around 1550s. Possibly derived from Middle French 'fleureter' (to touch lightly) or related to 'flit.' The meaning shifted from 'to move quickly' to 'to behave coquettishly' by the early 1600s.
Flirting is actually a universal human behavior found across all cultures—it's a low-stakes way to test romantic interest before making a bigger commitment. Some linguists believe the word's uncertain origin makes it perfect for describing something so playful and hard to pin down!
Historically coded as feminine behavior and morally scrutinized in women; when men flirt, framed as charming rather than manipulative. Double standard in perception.
Use to describe behavior from any gender without moral judgment. Recognize flirtation exists across genders as a communication style.
["playful banter","light social engagement"]
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