Forbid

/fərˈbɪd/ verb

Definition

To forbid means to officially say that something is not allowed. It can be done by a person in authority, a rule, or a law.

Etymology

“Forbid” comes from Old English “forbēodan,” meaning “to command against,” from “for-” (against) and “bēodan” (to command). The structure literally means “to command against doing something.”

Kelly Says

“Forbid” is stronger than just “don’t”: it carries the weight of power behind it. That’s why we say “God forbid” to strongly reject an idea, as if calling on the highest possible authority to rule it out.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Language of forbidding has historically been used to police women’s movement, dress, education, and work, often framed as moral or protective. Legal and religious texts frequently used ‘forbid’ in ways that constrained women’s autonomy more than men’s.

Inclusive Usage

Be explicit about who is restricting whom and why, to avoid naturalizing unequal power (“women were forbidden to vote” rather than “women didn’t vote”). Avoid using ‘forbid’ casually about adult autonomy in ways that echo paternalistic control.

Inclusive Alternatives

["prohibit","ban","not allow","restrict"]

Empowerment Note

When describing past prohibitions on women, highlight their resistance and strategies to circumvent bans, and note the people who worked to overturn such restrictions.

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