Hostess

/ˈhoʊstəs/ noun

Definition

A woman who receives and entertains guests, or a woman employed to welcome customers.

Etymology

Hostess traces back to Latin 'hostis' meaning 'stranger' or 'enemy' - the same root that gives us 'hostile.' In ancient Rome, a 'hospes' was both 'host' and 'guest' because the relationship between strangers was inherently dangerous and required careful ritual management. The host had sacred duties to protect guests, while guests had obligations not to harm hosts. A hostess was originally a woman managing these potentially deadly social encounters.

Kelly Says

The word hostess carries ancient anxiety about strangers - it comes from the same root as 'hostile' because welcoming unknown people into your home was genuinely risky! Roman hospitality rituals were elaborate because they transformed potential enemies into protected guests. Every dinner party hostess today is unconsciously performing this ancient magic of turning strangers into friends.

Translations

AMአማርኛ
ሚስተር ቤት
ARالعربية
مضيفة
BNবাংলা
আয়োজিকা
CACatalà
hoste
CSČeština
hostesa
DADansk
værtinde
DEDeutsch
Gastgeberin
ELΕλληνικά
ξενοδόχος
ESEspañol
anfitriona
FAفارسی
میزبانه
FISuomi
isäntä
FRFrançais
hôtesse
GUGU
ઘર ની મહિલા
HAHA
mai gida
HEעברית
מארחת
HIहिन्दी
मेजबानी
HUMagyar
háziasszony
IDBahasa Indonesia
nyonya rumah
IGIG
nne obi
ITItaliano
hostess
JA日本語
ホステス
KKKK
ұйда орташ әйел
KMKM
ម្ចាស់ដ្ឋាន
KO한국어
호스티스
MRMR
घराची स्वामिनी
MSBahasa Melayu
tuan rumah wanita
MYမြန်မာ
အိမ်ရှင်မ
NLNederlands
gastvrouw
NONorsk
vertinne
PAPA
ਘਰ ਦੀ ਮਾਲਕਣ
PLPolski
gospodyni
PTPortuguês
anfitriã
RORomână
gazdă
RUРусский
хозяйка
SVSvenska
värdinna
SWKiswahili
mwenyeji
TAதமிழ்
இல்லத்தரசி
TEతెలుగు
ఆతిథ్య వేదిక
THไทย
เจ้าหญิง
TLTL
dalaga ng bahay
TRTürkçe
hostesi
UKУкраїнська
господиня
URاردو
میزبانہ
VITiếng Việt
nữ chủ nhân
YOYO
olúwa ilé
ZH中文
女主人
ZUZU
umakoti

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Feminine suffix enforces gender coding of hospitality labor; parallel role 'host' for men remains unmarked, naturalizing male dominance in public space management

Inclusive Usage

Use 'host' as gender-neutral term for both roles; specify gender only when relevant to context

Inclusive Alternatives

["host","hospitality coordinator","event facilitator"]

Empowerment Note

Women hospitality workers historically underpaid and unrecognized; labor movements led by women fought for service industry rights and dignity

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