Manners

/ˈmænərz/ noun

Definition

ways of behaving, especially concerning politeness and social rules; customs or ways of doing things.

Etymology

From Old French 'maniere' derived from Latin 'maneria' meaning way or manner, from 'manus' meaning hand. Originally it referred to the way something was handled or done.

Kelly Says

The word 'manners' comes from the Latin word for 'hand'—because the way you handle things (with your hands) reflects how you behave, and good handling became 'good manners,' connecting physical grace to social grace.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Etiquette and 'proper manners' have historically been policed more strictly for women, with expectation of compliance reinforcing docility and limiting women's speech and movement.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'manners' and 'courtesy' without gender assumption. Good behavior is equally expected of all.

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