Shacking

/ˈʃækɪŋ/ verb

Definition

Living together with someone, especially in a casual or temporary way without being married.

Etymology

From 'shack,' possibly derived from Mexican Spanish 'jacal' (a thatched hut), which entered English in the 1800s. The term originally referred to living in a rough dwelling and evolved to mean cohabiting.

Kelly Says

This word became famous during the 1960s sexual revolution when it was considered scandalous—parents would gossip if their unmarried daughter was 'shacking up' with a boyfriend, but today it's just a casual way to describe living together!

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Gender History

Mid-20th century slang 'shacking up' carried moral judgment against cohabiting couples, particularly when applied to women. The term reinforced double standards about female sexuality and relationships.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'cohabiting,' 'living together,' or 'partnering' as neutral descriptors without moral valence.

Inclusive Alternatives

["cohabiting","living together","partnering"]

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