Stressed

/strɛst/ adjective

Definition

Feeling worried, tense, or under a lot of pressure.

Etymology

Past participle of “stress,” from Middle English “stresse” (hardship or pressure). It shifted from describing external pressure to the inner feeling it creates.

Kelly Says

Being stressed is your brain’s way of saying, “Too many tabs open, not enough memory.” A small amount can sharpen focus, but chronic stress quietly wears down both body and mind.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Descriptions of being 'stressed' have sometimes been gendered, with women’s stress dismissed as over-sensitivity and men’s stress framed as a sign of heavy responsibility. This has influenced who receives support and accommodations.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'stressed' based on self-report, not stereotypes about who 'should' be stressed, and avoid trivializing anyone’s stress because of gendered expectations.

Inclusive Alternatives

["under pressure","overwhelmed","strained"]

Empowerment Note

Women have organized around shared experiences of being overworked and stressed, from consciousness-raising groups to labor organizing and mental health advocacy.

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