Suffer

/ˈsʌf.ər/ verb

Definition

To suffer means to experience pain, hardship, or distress, whether physical, emotional, or mental.

Etymology

From Old French 'sofrir', from Latin 'sufferre' meaning 'to bear, endure', from 'sub' (under) + 'ferre' (to carry). It focused on carrying or enduring something difficult.

Kelly Says

At its root, 'suffer' is about carrying a burden, not just feeling hurt. That’s why people can 'suffer through' a boring lecture or 'suffer' from allergies—it’s all about what you’re forced to endure over time.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

The verb "suffer" has been central in describing gendered harms, from childbirth and domestic violence to legal and economic discrimination. Women's suffering has at times been romanticized or normalized, framing endurance of pain as a feminine virtue.

Inclusive Usage

Use "suffer" carefully to describe real harms without glorifying or trivializing them, and avoid suggesting that any gender is naturally meant to suffer in particular ways.

Inclusive Alternatives

["experience harm","endure hardship","be affected by","face difficulties"]

Empowerment Note

When discussing women's suffering historically, pair it with accounts of their resistance, organizing, and advocacy rather than portraying them only as passive victims.

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