Sympathetic

/ˌsɪmpəˈθɛtɪk/ adjective

Definition

Sympathetic means showing that you understand and care about someone else’s feelings or problems. It can also mean having similar emotions or a natural connection with something.

Etymology

From French 'sympathique', from Greek 'sympathetikos', from 'sympatheia' (fellow feeling), from 'syn-' (together) and 'pathos' (feeling, suffering). The core idea is 'feeling with' another.

Kelly Says

Your body has a 'sympathetic nervous system' that reacts when you’re stressed, as if it’s sympathizing with danger. The word bridges emotional empathy and physical response, showing how tightly mind and body are linked.

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

“Sympathetic” has often been used in gendered ways: women are expected to be sympathetic caregivers, while men may be discouraged from overt sympathy, reinforcing emotional labor imbalances. Professional appraisals have sometimes praised women as “sympathetic” rather than recognizing technical expertise.

Inclusive Usage

Use “sympathetic” for people of any gender and avoid assuming women should be more sympathetic by default. In professional contexts, pair it with recognition of skills, not as a substitute.

Inclusive Alternatives

["understanding","empathetic","supportive","compassionate"]

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