Themselves

/ðɛmˈsɛlvz/ or /ðəmˈsɛlvz/ pronoun

Definition

Themselves is used when the people or things already mentioned both do and receive the action, as in 'They taught themselves.' It can also add emphasis, as in 'They themselves didn’t know.'

Etymology

From Middle English *themselven*, combining 'them' with 'selves'. It parallels older forms like 'himself' and 'herself', created for clarity and emphasis.

Kelly Says

Reflexive pronouns like 'themselves' fold the action back onto the doer, like a grammatical mirror. When you say 'They did it themselves', you’re spotlighting independence and removing any invisible helpers from the story.

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Gender History

“Themselves” is the reflexive of ‘they’ and has been used for singular and plural reference. Resistance to singular ‘they/them/themselves’ in some periods reflected broader efforts to enforce generic ‘he’ and binary gender norms in English.

Inclusive Usage

Use “themselves” for individuals of any gender, including nonbinary people, when referring back to singular ‘they.’ This avoids forcing gendered reflexives like ‘himself’ or ‘herself.’

Inclusive Alternatives

["themself (emerging singular form, style-dependent)"]

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