Retiring

/rɪˈtaɪərɪŋ/ adjective

Definition

Shy or modest; not wanting attention or social interaction, or the act of stopping work and leaving a job permanently.

Etymology

From 'retire' (to withdraw) from Old French 'retirer' (re- back + tirer to pull). First meant physically withdrawing, then extended to shy behavior.

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Gender History

'Retiring' as personality descriptor has gendered history: modest, quiet women praised as 'retiring'; same trait in men called 'reserved' or 'thoughtful.' Applied selectively with gendered judgment.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'reserved,' 'private,' or 'quiet' to describe personality neutrally. For career retirement, use plainly.

Inclusive Alternatives

["reserved","private","quiet","introverted"]

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